Reference

1 John 3:1
The Love of God

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called the children of God! And that is what we are! 1 John 3:1

It's God's kindness that leads you to repentance. While the word "repentance" can sometimes feel like a loaded word, the intention behind it is to bring you back to a closeness with God.

If your relationship with God is feeling off or stagnant, "pay attention to the things you're paying attention to." Reflect on the ways that God has shown you his kindness.